My Opinion About Persoanl Boundaries

My Opinion About Persoanl Boundaries

Author: Roy Zeng

Caution:

This article is my personal opinion. I'm not writing this article to hurt anyone. I only wanna share my feeling and my thought.

In today's society, people have more freedom than before. People can choose their partnet, their lifestyle, and their future. I think this is normal in modern life. Everyone wants to be happy, and everyone has their own choice.

However, I feel uncomfortable about some situations. Sometimes people talk about sexual topics too directly. Sometimes they make sexual jokes or say strange words to me. When this happens, I feel nervous, stressed, and uncomfortable. I don't like this feeling.

I think everyone has their own bottom line. For me, I don't like people talking about pee, poop, or sexual behavior to me. This does not mean I hate anyone. It only means this topic is not suitable for me. I hope people can understand this.

In daily life, I can accept different people at school, at work, and in society. I can study together, work together, and talk normally. I think peaceful communication is very important. But respect is also very important.

If someone feels uncomfortable, other people should stop. Saying "no" is normal. Respect means you listen to ohter people's feelings. You don't force your idea on others.

 In my opinion, a good society isn't about everyone being the same. A good society is about understanding and respect. When people respect each other's feelings, life becomes easier and more peaceful.

This is my opinion. I hope people can understand my feeling and respect my boundary.